Ginger Shafer responded to my posting with
>Yes, IMHO. Can you imagine the power we could muster if you
>were to want me to win equally?
Isn't this Argyris' Espoused theory vs theory in use?
We talk about win/win but act win/lose -- especially when the tension and
therefore stress goes up!
-- Joe DiVincenzo NEANY@aol.com