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[Some of the extracts below were copied, with permission, from the BMMAmerica mailing list. Others were submitted directly to this website. Email webmaster to submit your own story, or comment on a specific extract. The contents of this page will change over time (The most recent entries are listed first below.) We'll try for variety and fresh points of view in these accounts of deeply felt personal experience.]


Self-Hatred: Two Pathways
Roger writes about coming out to his wife: I feel lighter than ever before
Terry writes to a new member of the group
Fred recommends books on mixed orientation marriages
Two wives talk about the grief of ending a marriage
Mac writes about whether to tell one's wife in detail about sexual experiences with men
Marnie talks about her husband's revealing his bisexuality
"Family Outing": a daughter's point of view
Kris talks about the value of personal stories on this web page
Thoughts on a Father's Coming Out to His Children, by Amity Buxton
Jennifer advises a husband about how to talk to his wife
Stan, Bill, and Martin talk about the "heaviness" of wishing for intimacy with a man.
Charles, a straight husband, talks about his bisexual wife.
Three husbands talk about staying in the closet for the children's sake.
Four fathers talk about the impact of divorce on young children.
Rick's Pipe Dream
The Other Guy: Stories of a foursome, a threesome, and a husband with a series of boyfriends
Carl talks about deciding not to be sexual with men
Mark talks about keeping his sexuality hidden from his wife
Hal talks about the pain of coming out to his wife
Frank talks about anonymous sex and depression
Leonard and Will talk about accepting queerness in oneself and others
Bob talks about remaining affectionate and sexual, despite medical problems and aging
Ben talks about trying to find his way, with limited options
Josh talks about how frankness about sexuality has changed his marriage
Sean talks about violence and forgiveness in marriage
Sean and Will talk about being closeted and being honest
Jennifer talks to Philip about how wives feel
Jennifer talks about honesty
Jennifer & Maggie talk about their husbands
Jennifer talks about the labels 'bisexual' and 'gay'
Jennifer and Sarah talk about loving more than one person
A wife tells of discovering that her husband is bisexual
A wife tells her story about the other side of the closet


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